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His Life

He wakes up. He goes to school. He smiles.

He walks down the hallway, greeting people left and right. He shows respect.

He goes home, talks about his day as if there was much to it, then walks into his room.

He plays sports, goes on late night trips, attends parties, all while maintaining the perfect 4.0 GPA.

“Be a man”, “Men aren’t weak”, “Be strong, don’t cry”, they said. “Fake it ’till you make it”, they said. “Be the best, nothing but the best, and win”, they said.

Did ‘they’ ever think about how much those words can affect someone? Did they ever think about what that kind of pressure can do to an individual? Did those people consider the effect of bottling emotions?

He wakes up. He goes to school. He fakes a smile. He follows his daily routine- going through life each day, pretending that everything is okay.

He shoots, he scores. Cheers are all around him, but even in the midst of his victory, he can’t help but feel like he’s losing. He’s losing the game called life. He’s dying inside.


 

Although I am an optimist, filled with hope, I am also aware of the different issues present in the world today. My last post, “Hurricanes”, focused on an environmental aspect. “His Life” focuses on an emotional one. Throughout adolescence, there’s a great deal of pressure because expectations are set higher and everything, from people to different types of platforms, is telling you who you should be.  I wanted to try and raise awareness about one thing that some teenagers struggle with.

 

Hurricanes

 

How Humans Are Affecting Hurricanes

 

Originally published in the The Harbinger

Hurricane Irma brought panic, distress, damage, and trauma to South Florida. Florida, Puerto Rico, the Virgin Islands, and many other areas were battered with heavy rainfall and falling trees. Hundreds of lives were lost and recovery was difficult.

Everyday, it is becoming more apparent that the climate is changing and that humans are playing a role in that change. It’s alarming to know that human actions have an impact on the hurricane season.

Chopping down forests, driving cars, and burning fossil fuels all emit greenhouse gases and all are completed through human actions. When greenhouse gases, such as carbon dioxide are emitted into the environment, the air becomes polluted and the oceans become warmer. Not only does air pollution put people in harm’s way, but it also warms the atmosphere. When the atmosphere warms, it adds on to global warming, which contributes to the production of intense hurricanes.

“Human-made global warming creates conditions that increases the chances of extreme weather,” states the Union of Concerned Scientists, a group of scientists and engineers who are dedicated to solving world problems such as global warming. Unfortunately, there are not enough concerned people in the world.

People seem to have a habit of  belittling serious problems, and this is one of them. For years, instead of showing concern for the growing issue, individuals deny global warming’s existence. They continue to cut down trees, burn coal, dump oil into the ocean, litter. Now, there’s a dirty environment, melting glaciers, and intense hurricanes that are causing the deaths of many. Yet, the coal burning, oil dumping, tree cutting, and littering doesn’t seem to be going anywhere.

Evidence shows that global warming can cause hurricanes to intensify. The Center for Climate and Energy Solutions project a 45 to 87 percent increase in the intensification of hurricanes, meaning much more intense, although less frequent, hurricanes. The amount of category four and five hurricanes will continue to increase unless action is taken. If there’s anything to learn from Katrina, Harvey, Matthew, Irma, Lane, and Michael, it’s that these natural disasters pose a threat to the lives and homes of others.

Within the next century, sea levels are projected to rise one to four feet. As the atmosphere warms, glaciers melt, sea levels rise, and that presents an opportunity for the frequency of storm surges and storm floods to increase, leading to more destruction and death.

“It is likely that greenhouse warming will cause hurricanes in the coming century to be more intense globally and have higher rainfall rates than present-day hurricanes” concluded the Geophysical Fluid Dynamics Laboratory (GFDL).

Every time someone burns a forest, they’re impacting hurricane season. Everytime someone burns a fossil fuel, another is at risk at getting harmed in a devastating hurricane. Everytime the ocean warms, there’s room for a hurricane to intensify and cause damage to the lives of others.

However, new discoveries and advances in technology provide the resources necessary to find ways to produce fuel without burning fossils fuels and emitting carbon dioxide into the air. Instead of degrading our environment by burning fossil fuels, synthetic gas that isolates carbon dioxide can be made. More funds can be used to research alternative ways to produce energy without emitting greenhouse gases. Even the little things, such as carpooling can be of aid.

Every year, there are reports of floods, heavy rainfall, and hurricanes that take a toll on people’s lives. It is important that humans, the ones who are supposed to take care of the environment, do so. With plenty of resources available, plenty of ways to inform the public, and plenty of people to come up with ideas, there’s no reason why people can’t have a positive impact on the environment and attempt to lower the intensity of hurricanes.

Everyone owes that to themselves, the environment, and their safety.

His Happiness

“I like to play music. I like to entertain people as well as myself. I like to get a reaction out of people and music is one of the best ways to do that.

When was younger, I started playing piano, but I didn’t like it because it made my fingers hurt and I didn’t find it fun. I told my mom I didn’t want to play music anymore and she kept telling me ‘you’re playing music’. She didn’t give me a choice. Since I hated piano so much, my dad brought me a trumpet and I went to a church band camp in the summer. I played it better than I expected, better than anyone expected , and a month later I was in the church band. Now, I play the baritone, trumpet, and saxophone. Ironically, I also like playing the piano now.

I met my closest friends in band, my best adventures were with band members, a lot of people in church know me because I play in the band, my girlfriend and I saw each other more because of band practices, and this interview would not be happening if you didn’t know me from band.

All of the best things that happened in my life so far occurred because of music.”

– Labrowsky Richard, 18, future Marine

This

She looked into his gray eyes, captivated, taking in their beauty, and thinking about how she could stare at them for hours. He gazed into her dark brown eyes in admiration, thinking about how they turn hazel in the sunlight. Sunlight or no sunlight, it was easy to get lost in them.

Their closeness brought them warmth. Their closeness brought them comfort.

The two stood there, standing still, in the midst of chaos. The sounds of cars speeding by, the people shouting, the baby boy crying -none of it mattered because in that moment, they felt like there was nothing around them. In that moment, there was no place they’d rather be.

The boy softly placed his hands on her face, each hand on an opposite side.

“This,” he breathed, “Your presence. Your love… It’s everything I want. It’s everything I need.”


Hearts

Hearts get broken.

It’s a part of life. At least once, you’ll find yourself in a situation that turns your world upside down, that wrecks you, that breaks your heart. Someone or something you thought would always be there suddenly won’t be. You’ll receive news that devastates you. Maybe you’ll breakup with the person you thought was your forever, witness a split that changes everything, lose the pet you’ve had since you were five or fail a test you stayed up all night studying for.

It happens. It hurts.

Hearts get broken.

Some deal with the pain by shutting out the world, some spend days with a tub of Ben and Jerry’s and a TV, some channel their sadness into hating everyone, everything and existence itself, some dive into work. Everyone copes differently.

Hearts get broken,

But they can also mend.

Some people don’t let their heart mend, they harden it. They become cool, closed off, and build a wall. They become afraid to feel because feeling can lead to more heartbreak. They become afraid to love, and afraid to let others in.

Hearts can mend.

It takes time. It takes patience. It takes will.

It’s not easy, and it can’t always be done alone, but it’s possible.

Hearts can mend,

But it will only mend if you let it.